Nudie Lee On Marriage, Nudism and the Importance of Communication
Nudism is Ruining My Marriage By Nudie Lee:
This week’s question comes to us from our sister website, Ask A Nudist.
I have been a social nudist for several years, but I’ve been hiding it from my wife and kids. So far I’ve been able to spend a few weekends (this year a whole week!) every summer at nude beaches or clubs by lying to my wife.
I KNOW my wife would not join me in nudism for religious reasons (trust me on this). I don’t want to choose between continuing the lies or giving up nudism so I’m thinking about divorce. Our marriage has many other problems anyway and there is not much love there.
I feel guilty about putting the kids through this of course but I don’t feel able to deny or hide such an important part of myself as nudism for years to come.
Even if your wife isn’t a nudist and wouldn’t have joined you in social nudity for her personal religious reasons (true to her self), she might have come to understand and accept your nudist ways.
Lies are like a cancer, they spread.
It is also important to separate your desire of nudism with the other issues in your relationship. Don’t forget that by omitting this huge part of your life, you didn’t give your wife the chance to accept you as a nudist, or not. Assuming always leads down the wrong path.
I truly hope that you will be able to find a way to happiness. When kids witness happy parents, as a unit or as two separate individuals, they end up as more stable human beings.
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