Ask Nudie Lee: Won’t Nudism Hurt Our Sex Life?

| May 31, 2016 | 3 Comments

Nudie Lee Explains Why Nudism Doesn’t Take Away From Sexy Time

Q. My girlfriend and I aren’t nudists, but are interested in trying social nudity. My major concern is that after we start spending a lot of time together without clothes on that our special sexy times won’t be as exciting because being naked will just be normal. What is your experience?

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Nudity doesn’t desensitize people to sexuality

A. Hello you two,

For many people, nudity is exclusive to showering and having sex. So nudity becomes a trigger for arousal, and there’s excitement around the mystery of what another person’s bits look like.

But losing that trigger doesn’t mean losing desire altogether. Sexuality is in the mind, and people experience sexual feelings whether clothing is present or not.

So just because you see your partner naked more often, doesn’t mean you’ll find them any less desirable when it comes to sexy time! You can start by trying nudism at home, and you’ll see it doesn’t negatively affect your sex life. In fact it may lead you to having more sex and better sex because nudists are so comfortable with their bodies.

If you find the sex getting a little stale, it’s always easy to leave more to the imagination with some lingerie.

Have fun!

Nudie Lee

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Part-time writer, part-time barista, and highly opinionated, Nudie Lee bursts onto the scene! Forged in a far-off land of frigid temperatures, large vicious animals, and universal health care, she is here to help with all of your dating and relationship questions.
  • sassycoupleok

    We are actually nude most of the time at home and anywhere we can be for that matter. It hasn’t hurt our sex life at all. If anything it has enhanced it. We totally enjoy seeing each other nude everyday.

  • jochanaan

    When you become accustomed to nudity, your own and others’, you become less attracted by “glamour” and more by a lover’s words and actions. And that is absolutely as it should be. Looks change; but the more you see her/his soul through actions, words and attitudes, the less you’ll depend on visual glamour–a great foundation for lifelong love.

  • Ian James Patterson

    I know I guy who has had issues with his wife in that regard due to nudism.